We tend to seek out relationships that are far more than superficial.
We crave deep, intense, meaningful interactionswith people who share our commitment to intimate connection and growth.
It might take us more time to find our “tribe” or lover, but once we do, our relationships have a level of depth and sincerity that is profoundly fulfilling.
2. INFJs are warm and compassionate.
Whether you're in a friendship or romantic relationship with an INFJ, you'll find they are selfless, warm, and trustworthy.
Because they so highly value relationships, they strive to be the best possible friend or partner.
In fact, they are always desiring to improve or perfect their relationships.
They are excellent listeners andextremely supportive and compassionate.
If a conflict arises, INFJs are usually the first to seek a resolution and are very willing to find a compromise.
3. INFJs are invested love partners.
INFJs fall deeply in love and enjoy showing love to their partners and sharing their rich inner life with their soulmate.
They are committed to the relationship and will work tirelessly to maintain a strong and intimate bond. INFJs are service-oriented, so making their partner happy is very important to them.
Because they have such high expectations from their love relationship, INFJs do best with a partner who is equally committed and invested in a healthy, meaningful connection, and someone who is willing to offer affirmation and emotional intimacy.
4. INFJs are soul-filled lovers.
For INFJs, sex isan expression of love rather than lust, and they will rarely engage in it casually.
They view sex as a communion of the souls, adding to the bond between them and their mate.
INFJs are passionate partners, and see sexual intimacy as a way to make their partners happy.
INFJs cherish not just being in a relationship, but the joyof becoming one with another person, in mind, body and soul.
5. INFJs are empathic.
INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They can read the mood of a room and get strong feelings about other people.
They have natural intuitive abilities that allow them a depth of understanding and compassion other types don't possess.
Many INFJs are highly sensitive people (HSPs) or empaths and can almost feel the emotions of those around them.
Because of their empathic and caring nature, INFJs attract many people to them, although they are generally selective about their closest friendships and lovers.
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Most INFJs take their role as a parent very seriously.
They are devoted, warm and loving parents, and they want their children to grow as independent individuals with strong values and principles.
INFJs listen to their child's point of view and will take into consideration their ideas and suggestions, as they want their children to learn to think on their own and make sound decisions.
As their children become adults, INFJs especially enjoy having a deep and meaningful relationship with them.
INFJs try to express their complex inner worlds through creative pursuits. They have rich imaginations and can easily visualize their ideas.
The are excellent communicators and writers and have a high degree of imagery and metaphor in their writing.
INFJs often use their creativity to draw people to a mission, to beautify the environment, to help people envision possibilities, and to improve the human condition.
They tend to notice patterns and trends to develop creative visions and ideas.
They want a career where they can make a difference, while utilizing their creativity and organizational skills.
They are creative problem solvers, have innovative ideas, and are principled workers who can envision, plan, and carry out complex projects aligned with their values.
In team environments, INFJs are mindful of group process, and will listenattentively to the opinions of others while synthesizing ideas and input tocreate a unified vision.
You'll often find INFJs in helping professions such as counseling, teaching, or the ministry.
If you see yourself as an INFJ, and you're looking for a romantic partner, it's valuable to recognize some of the less positive traits of this personality type.
In spite of our warmth, compassion, and creativity, we can sometimes be dismissive, intolerant, and intense.
We may have unreasonable expectations of others and be less than patient with their weaknesses.
But because we value self-awareness and inner growth, INFJs can improve these problemareas through self-reflection and by applying the same insight and determination we use for causes we value.
Even though we may search for that ideal relationship, the better path is seeking someone who is willing to learn and grow in the connection rather than someone who is perfect.
Don't allow your expectations to push away a potential partner who is willing to listen, communicate, and evolve with you.
